Monday, November 24, 2008

A nice weekend

Saturday I went to the Ten Thousand Villages 20% bag sale. If you don't know about Ten Thousand Villages it is a non-profit store run almost entirely by volunteers. They promote free trade by selling goods produced by artisans in developing states. Cathie and I spent an hour and a half in there in Saturday just looking at everything. Some of it is too kitchy and not my style, but there are a lot of really unique gift and home decor items.

I went straight from Ten Thousand Villages to Pier 1 where I received my "associates appreciation gift". Anyone that started working at the store before September 1st got $50 to spend in store. So that's fun. I have my eyes on some stuff I want to buy once it goes on sale. Sale price+discount+free money= happy Meagan.

Chris pretty much studied all weekend. He has a test Tuesday and then he's done for the week. Yay.

We're staying in Houston for the holiday and I have to say that I'm glad. With everything we have going on I feel stressed as it is and adding in a long drive to see more family members would be excess stress.

Hopefully, I'll start baking tonight after I get home from choir. I found a recipe for iced pumpkin cookies I want to try.

Friday, November 21, 2008

It's a rich man's world

I've been listening to a little ABBA lately so the song "Money, Money, Money" unfortunately has been stuck in my head for a while. This song selection is timely in part because of all the talk of the economy that is hitting us from every angle. If you read anything online, watch television, have a job, or a bank account you should have an idea of what's happening.

Personally, Chris and I have not felt a pinch yet due to the economic crises. Our retirement accounts have taken huge hits - around 30% each - and the contributions we made this year have all but disappeared at this point, but we only contribute money that we don't need now anyway. We don't plan on using it for another forty years so we can take the hits now. I'm not concerned.

The interest rate on our high interest checking has dropped from 6% to 4.5% over the course of a year, but that's still a great rate.

I got a pretty good job with great benefits during one of the worst months for our economy in recent history. Chris is in school getting an education that will provide a good job for him in the future. Really, the only area that I see us really getting into economic trouble in would be a loss of loans for Chris' school. As of now that is not a worry.

I have to say I agree with ABBA. It is a rich man's world. But rich doesn't mean millions in the bank. You are rich if you have money in the bank, a home you can afford whether that be by renting or owning, and secure employment. It's too easy to focus on all the problems and worry about what might happen but I'm not right now. I don't like seeing people suffering but economies go through these cycles. It won't always be like this. And I don't think we've seen the worst. I fully expect it to get worse before we see the upswing. For now though, we'll keep contributing to retirement, paying down student loans, and living life as normal.

Monday, November 17, 2008

A bit TMI

At my job I currently work on the fifth floor of the library. It is very quiet as can be expected. I was liking the space a lot. However, today I made a very disturbing discovery.

The women's restroom has green marble floors with a shiny finish. It looks alright. But today someone came into the stall beside me. Shiny finish=reflection!!! Eww! You can totally see what is happening in the stall next to you in far more detail than should ever be seen in a bathroom. It's disturbing. So now I have a mild fear of the fifth floor bathroom.

I then discovered the fourth floor bathroom does not have this problem. So now I will take the stairs down the floor if I need to use the bathroom at work. This is good for the whole weight loss plan as well!

Friday, November 14, 2008

Student Loans, weight loss, and Pier 1

Today I put a nice chunk of change toward paying down my debt accrued for graduate school. We had the money to pay it all off up front, but decided to allocate that cash to our condo down payment instead. So now we'll pay it off slowly. I will officially reenter repayment in February so I am trying to pay off as much as possible before interest hits. I also paid down some of Chris' dental school loans because he has some unsubsidized stuff that is already gaining interest. If we are able to keep the repayment plan I have in my head my debt will be gone within 18 months.

If only losing weight was that easy. While I have not gained any lately, I've been pretty stagnant. I like to attribute this to my new job in part as I have not developed a great workout routine since I started. We also got into the habit of eating out again. We've done to eat at home this week though. The key is meal planning/ grocery shopping on the weekend. If this doesn't happen on the weekend it usually doesn't happen for the week.

I am not sure how much longer I'll keep the Pier 1 job. I still like it but I work 40 hrs a week at Rice and have averaged another 10-15 at Pier 1. If I stick it out through the holidays I will likely only get one shift a week starting in January, if they even keep me on, and I wouldn't mind that. We'll see.

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Good morning!

Since moving to Houston we do not let the cats sleep with us anymore. Tabby (the oldest) had a habit of meowing loudly around 3-5 AM and Chris had enough of it. Turkey is not a problem but I feel guilty locking one in a room and letting the other stay out so it's all or nothing.

So usually one of us gets up first and lets them out. Today Chris got up first and I was greated by the kitties in bed. Tabby (the typically more stand offish one) starts cuddling.

Turkey slaps me in the face. Haha. She's usually the cuddler and it cracked me up. I think she was starting to play with my hair but I started laughing to hard to pay much attention.

I love my kitties.

Monday, November 10, 2008

I want that condo!

Today at work I got a little bored and decided to check our local real estate site. I found a condo in our complex that I want to own! It is almost entirely redone - nice cement countertops in the kitchen, new fixtures in the bathroom, new laminate down in the living spaces and beautiful new carpet in the bedrooms. It's two bed/two bath with a split bedroom arrangement. We currently are in a two bed/one bath. It's a top floor unit (we are currently on the second of three floors). I want it.

We could buy it and rent out the 2/2 because the lay out is perfect for roommates. It would likely be easier to rent out than our current 2/1. It's an extra 200 square foot as well. And it's priced perfectly for our market. There must be something wrong with it.

Our current financial plans include focusing on our retirement accounts and blasting out the student debt we have and preventing the accumulation of more as much as possible. This purchase would make that plan take a huge about face. So we won't do it.

Sometimes I dislike being sensible. It would be fun to be impulsive right now.

Friday, November 7, 2008

The White House Butler

A Butler Well Served by This Election
For 34 Years, Eugene Allen Carried White House Trays With Pride. Now There's Even More Reason to Carry Himself That Way.

By Wil Haygood
Washington Post Staff Writer
Friday, November 7, 2008; A01

For more than three decades Eugene Allen worked in the White House, a black man unknown to the headlines. During some of those years, harsh segregation laws lay upon the land.

He trekked home every night, his wife, Helene, keeping him out of her kitchen.

At the White House, he worked closer to the dirty dishes than to the large desk in the Oval Office. Helene didn't care; she just beamed with pride.

President Truman called him Gene.

President Ford liked to talk golf with him.

He saw eight presidential administrations come and go, often working six days a week. "I never missed a day of work," Allen says.

His is a story from the back pages of history. A figure in the tiniest of print. The man in the kitchen.

He was there while America's racial history was being remade: Brown v. Board of Education, the Little Rock school crisis, the 1963 March on Washington, the cities burning, the civil rights bills, the assassinations.

When he started at the White House in 1952, he couldn't even use the public restrooms when he ventured back to his native Virginia. "We had never had anything," Allen, 89, recalls of black America at the time. "I was always hoping things would get better."

In its long history, the White House -- just note the name -- has had a complex and vexing relationship with black Americans.

"The history is not so uneven at the lower level, in the kitchen," says Ted Sorensen, who served as counselor to President Kennedy. "In the kitchen, the folks have always been black. Even the folks at the door -- black."

Sorensen tried to address the matter of blacks in the White House. But in the end, there was only one black man who stayed on the executive staff at the Kennedy White House past the first year. "There just weren't as many blacks as there should have been," says Sorensen. "Sensitivities weren't what they should have been, or could have been."

In 1866 the abolitionist Frederick Douglass, sensing an opening to advocate for black voting rights, made a White House visit to lobby President Andrew Johnson. Johnson refused to engage in a struggle for black voting rights. Douglass was back at the White House in 1877. But no one wished to discuss his political sentiments: President Rutherford Hayes had engaged the great man -- it was a time of high minstrelsy across the nation -- to serve as a master of ceremonies for an evening of entertainment.

In the fall of 1901, another famous black American came to the door. President Theodore Roosevelt invited Booker T. Washington, head of the Tuskegee Institute, to meet with him at the White House. Roosevelt was careful not to announce the invitation, fearing a backlash, especially from Southerners. But news of the visit leaked quickly enough and the uproar was swift and noisy. In an editorial, the Memphis Scimitar would write in the ugly language of the times: "It is only recently that President Roosevelt boasted that his mother was a Southern woman, and that he is half Southern by reason of that fact. By inviting a nigger to his table he pays his mother small duty."

Fifty years later, invitations to the White House were still fraught with racial subtext. When the Daughters of the American Revolution refused to allow pianist Hazel Scott to perform at Constitution Hall because of her race, many letters poured into the White House decrying the DAR's position. First lady Bess Truman was a member of the organization, but she made no effort to get the DAR to alter its policy. Scott's husband, Harlem congressman Adam Clayton Powell, subsequently referred to Bess Truman as "the last lady of the land." The words outraged President Truman, who vowed to aides he would find some way to punish Powell and barred the fellow Democrat from setting foot inside the Truman White House.

The first black to hold a policy or political position in the White House was E. Frederick Morrow, a former public relations executive with CBS. Gen. Dwight Eisenhower's presidential campaign operatives were so impressed with Morrow's diligent work during the 1952 campaign that they promised him a White House executive job if Ike were elected. Ike won, but Morrow ended up being placed at the Department of Commerce. He felt slighted and appealed to Republican friends in New York to force the White House to make good on its promise.

The phone finally rang in 1955 and Morrow was named administrative officer for special projects. He had hoped the title would give him wide responsibilities inside the White House, but found himself dealing, for the most part, with issues related to the Brown desegregation ruling, the Rosa Parks-led bus boycott in Montgomery, Ala., and the 1957 Little Rock school crisis.

"He was a man of great dignity," says Stephen Hess, senior fellow emeritus at the Brookings Institution, who worked as a speechwriter for Eisenhower. Morrow was in a lonely position, but "he did not complain," says Hess. "That wasn't Fred Morrow."

When Morrow left his White House position, he imagined there'd be corporate job offers. There were not. "Only thing he was offered were jobs related to the black community," says Hess. Nonetheless, "after Morrow, it was appropriate to have a black person on the staff of the White House."
'Pantry Man'

Before he landed his job at the White House, Gene Allen worked as a waiter at the Homestead resort in Hot Springs, Va., and then at a country club in Washington.

He and wife Helene, 86, are sitting in the living room of their home off Georgia Avenue NW. A cane rests across her lap. Her voice is musical, in a Lena Horne kind of way. She calls him "honey." They met in Washington at a birthday party in 1942. He was too shy to ask for her number, so she tracked his down. They married a year later.

In 1952, a lady told him of a job opening in the White House. "I wasn't even looking for a job," he says. "I was happy where I was working, but she told me to go on over there and meet with a guy by the name of Alonzo Fields."

Fields was a maitre d', and he immediately liked Allen.

Allen was offered a job as a "pantry man." He washed dishes, stocked cabinets and shined silverware. He started at $2,400 a year.

There was, in time, a promotion to butler. "Shook the hand of all the presidents I ever worked for," he says.

"I was there, honey," Helene reminds. "In the back, maybe. But I shook their hands, too." She's referring to White House holiday parties, Easter egg hunts. They have one son, Charles. He works as an investigator with the State Department.

"President Ford's birthday and my birthday were on the same day," he says. "He'd have a birthday party at the White House. Everybody would be there. And Mrs. Ford would say, 'It's Gene's birthday, too!' "

And so they'd sing a little ditty to the butler. And the butler, who wore a tuxedo to work every day, would blush.

"Jack Kennedy was very nice," he goes on. "And so was Mrs. Kennedy."

"Hmm-mmm," she says, rocking.

He was in the White House kitchen the day JFK was slain. He got a personal invitation to the funeral. But he volunteered for other duty: "Somebody had to be at the White House to serve everyone after they came from the funeral."

The whole family of President Jimmy Carter made her chuckle: "They were country. And I'm talking Lillian and Rosalynn both." It comes out sounding like the highest compliment.

First lady Nancy Reagan came looking for him in the kitchen one day. She wanted to remind him about the upcoming dinner for West German Chancellor Helmut Kohl. He told her he was well ahead in the planning and had already picked out the china. But she told him he would not be working that night.

"She said, 'You and Helene are coming to the state dinner as guests of President Reagan and myself.' I'm telling you! I believe I'm the only butler to get invited to a state dinner."

Husbands and wives don't sit together at these events, and Helene was nervous about trying to make small talk with world leaders. "And my son says, 'Mama, just talk about your high school. They won't know the difference.'

"The senators were all talking about the colleges and universities that they went to," she says." I was doing as much talking as they were.

"Had champagne that night," she says, looking over at her husband.

He just grins: He was the man who stacked the champagne at the White House.
Moving Up, but Slowly

President Kennedy, who succeeded Eisenhower, started with two blacks, Frank Reeves and Andrew Hatcher, in executive positions on his White House staff. Only Hatcher, a deputy press secretary, remained after six months. Reeves, who focused on civil rights matters, left in a political reshuffling.

The issue of race bedeviled this White House, even amid good intentions. In February 1963, Kennedy invited 800 blacks to the White House to commemorate the 100th anniversary of the Emancipation Proclamation. Louis Martin, a Democratic operative who helped plan the function, had placed the names of entertainer Sammy Davis Jr. and his wife, May Britt, on the guest list. The White House scratched it off and Martin would put it back on. According to Martin, Kennedy was aghast when he saw the black and white couple stroll into the White House. His face reddened and he instructed photographers that no pictures of the interracial couple would be taken.

But Sammy Davis Jr. was not finished with 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. He got himself invited to the Nixon White House to meet with the president and talk about Vietnam and business opportunities for blacks. He even slept in the Lincoln Bedroom once. When Davis sang at the 1972 Republican convention in Miami, he famously wrapped his arms around Nixon at a youth rally there, becoming forever identified with a White House that many blacks found hostile.

Lyndon Johnson devoted considerable energy and determination to civil rights legislation, even appointing the first black to the Supreme Court. But it did not translate to any appreciable number of blacks working on his staff. Clifford Alexander says he was the sole black in Johnson's White House, serving first as a National Security Council officer, then as associate White House counsel.

"We were fighting for something quite new," says Alexander. "You knew how much your job meant. And you knew President Johnson was fighting on your behalf." As a young man growing up in Harlem, Alexander had heard about Morrow. Mothers and fathers pointed to him as a grand success story. "Fred was a lovely man," says Alexander. "But they did not pay any attention to him in the Eisenhower White House."

Colin Powell would become the highest-ranking black of any White House to that point when he was named President Reagan's national security adviser in 1987. Condoleezza Rice would have that same position under President George W. Bush.

The butler remembers seeing both Powell and Rice in the Oval Office. He was serving refreshments. He couldn't help notice that blacks were moving closer to the center of power, closer than he could ever have dreamed. He'd tell Helene how proud it made him feel.
Time for Change

Gene Allen was promoted to maitre d' in 1980. He left the White House in 1986, after 34 years. President Reagan wrote him a sweet note. Nancy Reagan hugged him, tight.

Interviewed at their home last week, Gene and Helene speculated about what it would mean if a black man were actually elected president.

"Just imagine," she said.

"It'd be really something," he said.

"We're pretty much past the going-out stage," she said. "But you never know. If he gets in there, it'd sure be nice to go over there again."

They've got pictures of President and Mrs. Reagan in the living room. On a wall in the basement, they've got pictures of every president Gene ever served. There's a painting President Eisenhower gave him and a picture of President Ford opening birthday gifts, Gene hovering nearby.

They talked about praying to help Barack Obama get to the White House. They'd go vote together. She'd lean on her cane with one hand, and on him with the other, while walking down to the precinct. And she'd get supper going afterward. They'd gone over their Election Day plans more than once.

"Imagine," she said.

"That's right," he said.

On Monday Helene had a doctor's appointment. Gene woke and nudged her once, then again. He shuffled around to her side of the bed. He nudged Helene again. He was all alone.

"I woke up and my wife didn't," he said later.

Some friends and family members rushed over. He wanted to make coffee. They had to shoo the butler out of the kitchen.

The lady whom he married 65 years ago will be buried today.

The butler cast his vote for Obama on Tuesday. He so missed telling his Helene about the black man bound for the Oval Office.



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Thursday, November 6, 2008

A new day, a new President-elect

Well, the seemingly never ending election FINALLY came to an end. While I do not agree with all of his policies, I have to say I feel better about the Obama/Biden team as a whole than I did with the McCain/Palin team. Sarah Palin one health incident or accident away from being president? No thanks.

I thought McCain showed his true class in his concession speech, as did Obama in congratulating McCain for his campaigning efforts. A few random thoughts:

1. The race factor: I know that as a white female I lose some credibility in discussing this issue, but it makes me simultaneously happy and sad that a lot of the celebration over Obama's victory focused on his skin color. This is a man that won the popular vote of the entire country in a way that many voters have never seen. He contributed to 50% percent of registered voters age 18-25 actually voting! While it is sad that half of the registered voters in this demographic gave up their voice, 50% is a huge number. Regardless, instead of promoting general statistics such as these, the camera panned to crowds of black American's celebrating. And interviews focused on the fact that he will be the first black President. I wish the focus could have been more about unity as a nation instead of focusing on race which can still be divisive. (I primarily watched MSNBC for election coverage - maybe this was different on other networks.)

On the other hand, it breaks my heart that over a century since slavery ended in this nation and fifty years since the civil rights movement achieved some of their most ground breaking victories there are black, Asian, Hispanic, etc. individuals that genuinely believed that they would never see a non-white individual move into the White House in their lifetime. I am glad for the hope Obama's victory has given them but appalled that this lesson is still being learned.

2. I am beyond sick of uninformed people. This morning, over twenty four hours after the election was over I am still getting ridiculous email forwards, phone calls, and hearing conversations that disgust me. I do not understand how people can blindly accept information that seems so ridiculous.

There are reports that gun shops in Texas are literally running out of weapons to sell because of people wrongly believing that Obama does not support the 2nd amendment. Running out and buying a hand gun because you fear that Obama's policies might make it more difficult for you to have one in the future is idiotic. If you truly needed/wanted one you probably would have already had one. Buying a weapon that you cannot use does not protect you. In fact you are putting yourself at greater risk because the person that breaks into your house that you are fearful of might know how to use it and turn it back on you.

If these people making a rush to the gun shop to buy weapons, my own parents included, had any sense they would pop onto Obama's website or just do a google search to see what he thinks about gun control. I bet they would find themselves in agreement with a lot of what he has to say. Get rid of assault weapons. Keep excess weapons out of inner cites. Protect the federal right to bear arms, but leave the option open for states and cities to come up with their own policies.


3. And along the same lines, I am so tired of propaganda. For people that pass along email forwards you have not researched or spread rumors during the campaign about Obama you should be ashamed of yourselves. Because American's are apparently so gullible that we will believe anything that lands in our inbox, we have American's truly fearful of our soon-to-be president.

4. For Christians who believe that Obama's the Antichrist, who cares. If he is, you get to go to heaven sooner! As a Christian you should be taken in the rapture and you won't even be on earth to experience the plagues. Hallelujah!

I meant to write this post yesterday when I was truly excited about the election being over and more optimistic in the results, but I ran out of time. A phone call this morning just really frustrated and has really been on my mind all day. I'd love to hear anyone's thoughts on what I wrote or what they thought about the election results.

Monday, November 3, 2008

Quick vent

I cannot stand hearing stories from people making almost a half million dollars a year not having money. If you are making that much annually and you don't have money in savings, frankly, I think you are an idiot.

Sending out emails asking for help to your children making a fraction of your salary after being unemployed for three months does not make sense to me. Stop buying crap. Sell your ridiculous two seater BMW convertible that you just had to buy even though your own family can never ride with you. Most people are smart enough to figure out that if more than two people live with you a two seater is a dumb choice for a vehicle. I do not know why you would expect sympathy when you are wasteful and have the means to get yourself out of your own problems.

In a house that has 8 bedrooms (and thus 8 closets) shared by four people your clothes alone should not be FILLING 6 closets. You could make a small fortune in a consignment shop.

Or better yet, sell the 8 bedroom house in the well to do neighborhood and downsize so that you can afford your lifestyle.

Basically do anything except ask your kids for a hand out when you seriously don't need one.